I have recently told my friend that i’m gray sexual which basically means i have low sex drive so today they were talking about how their boyfriend kissed them. I then said i am going to be forever alone and then they said “too gray sexual for you” . I know its not that big of a deal but I am actually offended by it.
My boyfriend gets annoyed at EVERYTHING. Like, the most random things too. Things that I would never know how to predict. For example, tonight we were having a really fun, pleasant conversation at his apartment and we were flirting a lot (we’ve been together for a while and our flirting involves a lot of teasing and crude jokes). He had some dollar bills and he started reaching towards me with them. My legs were slightly open and it looked like he was reaching to put them between my legs (I was
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THERE USED TO BE A TIME WHERE I COULD SAY ANYTHING, WEAR ANYTHING AND EAT ANYTHING. AND NOW EVERY SINGLE FREAKING THING I DO IS CULTURAL APPROPRIATION OR RACIST OR HOMOPHOBIC AND I DON’T WANT TO SAY ANYTHING ANYMORE CUZ I’M LIKE I’M SORRY I DON’T WANT TO HURT YOU BUT YOU MIGHT TAKE MY JOKES THE WRONG WAY.
IT’S RIDICULOUS. I SPILL A SHARPIE ON ME AND SAY “OH I’M ALL BLACK NOW” AND THE CAF RIPS ME. OR I DO AN INDIAN ACCENT IN CLASS FOR FUN AND PEOPLE SHAKE THEIR HEADS. I’M A FREAKING INDIAN!!!!!
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Are these things cultural appropriation? Or is my definition just wrong?
- usage of the word “karma”
- yoga
- learning a dance form that originated from people of a different skin colour
- wearing a non-religious piece of ethnic clothing / emulating their style
- learning another language
- ethnic-inspired fashion choices
- celebrating Cinco de Maya, Diwali, Christmas, Eid, if you’re not religious
Here’s the thing. I’d be more willing to understand the significance of religious/spiritual
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