i’m not referring ‘ugly’ as in appearance ugly, i’m average-looking, i think.
I just feel i’m ugly in personality, like a failure. I procrastinate all day, i don’t work out, i can’t play any music instruments, i sleep all day at class and whatnot. I see all my friends and they already know what their dreams are. They work out, they have bf/gf, while i’m short af hahah.
But it’s not that bad, i still have pretty good grades, have several great friends, and i’m not depressed nor suicidal.
But
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It’s not “creepy” if he’s hot. I freely admit it. When a very attractive stranger approaches me and tells me I’m beautiful, it brightens my day. When a guy who is short, fat or balding does it, it makes my skin crawl no matter how tactful he is about it. I just want him to go away. I’m not alone in feeling this way. Most women feel the same, but hide the true extent of it when the guys are around.
If said ugly guy doesn’t pick up on social cues that I’m not interested in getting to know him,
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Ok I met this amazing guy online. We talked on the phone and I felt myself really falling for him. There was just one problem - I didn’t know what he looked like. So of course I made sure not to commit before we met. We met today and I am not physically attracted to him. We had an argument about this before and he called me shallow for counting physical beauty. Ok, let me just say I do not put ALL the emphasis on looks. Though I will not be seeing him again because he completely turns me off.
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