Posted 26th March 2011 3532

I’ve learned a lot lately that adults really are no different than high schoolers, it’s fucking rediculous.

Some smoke pot, some drink. Most don’t know how to communicate effectively. Many don’t know how to manage their fucking money.

They have social groups, their less defined but they still have them.

Adults get drunk do dumber things than drunk teens do.

My dad’s an alcoholic, my step mom is an alcoholic, she drinks herself to sleep every night sitting in the living room.

Adults don’t realize there’s always a reason for kids to do things like report their parents as abusive to the authorities. Sometimes it’s a cry for attention that the parent just turns back with more abuse. Some times there really is abuse going on and the parent refuses to realize it.

One big thing that parents don’t do is show their love for the kid. They don’t understand. You don’t show love through money, that’s one of the biggest mistakes parents make.

I’d say I’ve been fortunate, I’ve got a mom, she’s been poor for most of my life, by dad, he’s been what I consider rich, my whole life. I love my mom more, I’m not afraid to say it. My dad has paid for my sports, sports equipment, food, utilities, everything money wise in my life up until after highschool. I appreciate it, and do value it, but honestly my mom has been a better parent to me than my dad. My dad’s verbally abusive, we don’t talk.

I see my mom once every 2 months now, and my dad every day(I’m living here as I go to college(I’m paying my tuition on my own so that was our deal)) My mom even though I never see her, she treats me with love and shows it every time I see her. She couldn’t provide a great home for me financially but honestly I would take living in the dumps in a crowded apartment with roaches everything, and living with her over living with my dad with everything handed to me. Why? because I don’t feel like I want to commit suicide when I’m with my mom, I feel happy. My Mom has been through more hardship in her life than anyone else I know, she has depression she has had a hell of a life but she’s always nice, she always acts happy regardless of whats going on. I’d rather that than drunk sedated and pissed off yelling at me every 5-10 minutes for no reason.

My longest relationship 3 years, it was a very serious relationship, yet we managed to only have 1 fight, and by most people’s standards it was more of an arguement, we got over it fast and boom everything it was good.

adults are no better than teens. Except teens learn from their mistakes, adults can’t

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