Posted 7th December 2008 3140

Well… I mean there’s always a lot of tension in people lives especially being young like myself living the college life..but I’m always the person that my friends come to for advice, as much as I love to lend an ear it kinda bothers me with one of my friends…I’ve known her for awhile and we’ve had our tiffs, but in the end I don’t think she really listens. I understand advice is a word of opinion to help guide you, but when your constantly going to someone with the same questions after you completely do the exact opposite over and over again its annoying. Well my friend she’s a couple years older than me but I feel like I have more experience than her and she disregards that. She’s one of those people that thinks that they are better than everyone else which of course thats annoying to anyone to make you want to hit them. But I like to be a loyal friend and all, I’m getting to the point where I just want to explode at her with my feelings of her stupid ways. She’s always talking about this guy who when I first met her they dated, but after a semester he broke up with her after they’ve been together for 2 1/2 years. Well after that she was devastated which I never did blame her, anyone would be. I understood when she said she wanted to change and try to make herself better to get with him, but after that things got worse in my perspective about her. She went from this quiet, timid girl to an obsessed and vile personality that was so completely fake. Always playing the victim card anytime something doesn’t go her way. Anyways she and him have been constant on and again friends almost to a relationship then he’d rip out her heart after he’ got what he wanted and not talk to her for awhile then the cycle began AGAIN! It’s been like that for 2 years now, then 6 months ago she finally realized what a scum bag he honestly was and forced herself to let him go, things went great but her personality began to rot into more fake-ness and selfish-ness. I’m one of those people that are very opinionated and speaks whats on their mind when they feel it needs to be heard, anytime I’ve been honest with her as a concerned friend she’d stab me in the back and yell at me saying I’m a horrible friend and to stop lying. I found out about a month ago she went back to seeing the friggin guy that crushed her so many times…and now after I told her yes it’s not my place to speak anymore I don’t care what you do because its not like its going to change anything but I will be disappointed if you get serious again…Well she’s thinking about it and well I don’t know what to do anymore..I’m so fed up with this same charade and her greedy personality that its annoying and repulsive. I only have one more semester with her and I know I should just keep the peace but I feel like I need to say something at least about how she acts towards us (her friends), when we do nothing but listen and help her she gets offensive and never does anything back when we ask for help for something (like if she even has a book that we need she forgets to lend it until last minute) if its not about her then she doesn’t care, and it drives me bonkers…I mean..what do I do?

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