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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and he’s doesn’t planon marrying me anytime soon. I have been living with him for almost a year now and I’m pretty content with living with himforthe rest of my life. We’ve talked about marrige and it seems like he raising the dating time each time we talk about it. Just a minute ago he said he wants to wait 5 years. He is 23 going on 24. I don’t want to be old by the time we have kids together, also another topic we have talked about and he wants to have kids. I’ve gave him all the hints in the world and I have even told him I want to be married before we have kids!! I don’t wanna wait that long. I’m 19 going on 20 and I’ve been through a break up with my first “love.” I know I can live cofortable with him for the rest of my life. He’s my best friend and my whole world. It doesn’t seem like he knows how much I care for him. I’ve done all the things google told me to do on “How to get him to propose.” I just don’t get it. I really don’t think we’re rushing things. We’ve both discussed our future together and want to have kids in the future but he’s not “ready.” I don’t know what to do. :(
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Posted by Mirrored Image 8th May 2011
Oh Honey, you have to stand back and really look at this situation. Believe it or not, your boyfriend is probably doing you a favor saying to wait 5 years. You’re 19 going on 20, which means in 5 years you’ll be 25. That is not old to get married and have a child. In fact most would consider that still young. Its amazing what you learn about yourself in the next 5 years of your life. Take your time, be patient, if he’s already had an honest discussion with you about this it shows he’s not planning to run away. But if you keep pushing for something neither of you are ready for, you will push him away.Post a confession or rant now! It’s completely anonymous.
Posted by Anonymous 29th April 2011
I’d like to highlight two sentences in this post:1) “I have been living with him for almost a year ”
2) “I’m 19 going on 20 ”
read those two. now read them again. now once more.
If you you are for real, my advice is this:
tell your ovaries to stop trying to ruin your life.