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Okay, so, here’s my issue. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and we have a VERY sexual relationship, which, I think is great. It’s very open and honest, which pleases both of us GREATLY. Here’s the problem though, we both have Tumblrs and my Tumblr is an outlet of expresssion for me. I don’t put anything super crazy on my blog, it’s really just to rant, or express anything that’s on my mind at the moment, without actually saying it. My boyfriend, has 2 Tumblrs, one is sexual and one is just an open form of expression. On my Tumblr, I leave cute pictures for him and little messages to go with them. He leaves me messages too…but mostly on his sexual Tumblr and he reblogs pictures of these…well..bimbos. I’ve asked him before if that is what he wants, and he’s said no…but now he’s starting to post messages to me about LEARNING to be like those women. I don’t want to be those girls. They’re dumb, completely brainless….more brainless than a box of rocks on top of that, I don’t personally think ridding yourself of a brain/opinion of your own just to be a sex object is attractive…at all. I do and wear things in the bedroom for him that he thinks are hot…but I’ll never strive to be one of those girls and seeing the posts he puts up, even that aren’t directed towards me, are starting to bother me because I feel like if I don’t eventually look like that, he won’t be attracted to me anymore…It’s just pissing me off because sometimes, I just want him to see me like that…except with more value. He says they’re just eye candy but…I don’t know…it bothers me. I want him to be drooling over ME and masturbating to ME. And sometimes, back to the Tumblr thing, I wish he’d leave CUTE messages instead of it always being sexual ones…I’m more of a romantic and sometimes, I wish he was too…
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Posted by Realist 13th March 2015
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Posted by Boodle 9th December 2014
I hate to say it honey, but your boyfriend is a loser. While he says that he isn’t trying to make you be like those women, the message is quite clear: he wants you to be those women. Not only that, but it also seems like he only views you as a piece of ass he can manipulate to do what he wants.You need to have a heart to heart with him about this. Tell him to cut this shit out or you’ll leave. To be completely honest, I don’t see this relationship lasting because it does appear to be an almost purely physical relationship where he’s your boyfriend in name only. There’s nothing wrong with a purely physical relationship, but I don’t see where this is open or honest since not only is he lying to you about what he wants (ie, he wants you to be like those other women) but odds are that he’s lying about other stuff as well. I wouldn’t be surprised if he wasn’t stringing a few girls along online. I’d start using condoms and get tested, if I were you.