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After finishing work i came home to find an empty house and a note from my partner saying she was going to her parents and would be back in a few days.
I decided to go out for a few beers with some friends. As the night went on, people started to go home, and there was just this woman and myself left. Last orders were called and she said i could go back to her place for a nightcap, my intentions were to just sleep over and leave, but she started to get flirty (I’m not going to blame her as it takes two to Tango) and i enjoyed it. But one thing lead to another…
I feel guilty and know it was wrong.
I’m not going to justify my actions by saying i was tired or it was the alcohol. This is my first one night stand and the first time i have ever “played away” from home.
What do i do next?
Tell my partner of my indiscretion?
Keep quiet and hope it never gets out?
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Posted by Anonymous 26th January 2009
What transpired between you and the woman at the bar is really none of your partner’s business…. except for one thing. If you didn’t wear a condom, it would be immoral for you to have sex with your partner until you’ve been medically tested to verify whether or not you picked up HIV or another Sexually Transmitted Disease. Your partner has a reasonable right to expect that she is safe from such a thing within her relationship with you. Your infidelity changed that. And speaking of rights, you don’t have the right to expose her to a potentially fatal condition without her knowledge. She should be able to give “informed consent” about sleeping with you, if there is a risk of transmitting a disease. So, until you’ve been given a clean bill of health from medical tests, you shouldn’t have sex with her.Posted by Anonymous 26th January 2009
Reverse the situation for your answer. If she had a one night stand with some other dude while you were out of town, would you want her to tell you or just keep it under wraps if it was a “one time thing.”Posted by Anonymous 26th January 2009
“What transpired between you and the woman at the bar is really none of your partner’s business….”Posted by Daddy 26th January 2009
Hell no dont tell her. She should be the one to apologize to you for leaving you alone for a few days. And if she were cheating on you, you have evey right to beat the living hell out of her. She should come home and serve you. Thats her job. Its not your fault that you had to go out and get it somewhere else. Ill bet that she didnt even leave dinner in the fridge for the days she was gone, did she?Posted by Dude where’s my Wife! 26th January 2009
I suggest you tell your wife, and when she freaks out tell her that you thought this was ok since you held back information about the son’s football friend and your family dog. When she’s screaming in agony, say your sorry you were joking about the boy and dog, and say “see it isn’t that bad after all honey!”Posted by Anonymous 31st January 2009
Wtf is wrong with you people!?!? “Daddy” your just a JACKASS!! And Author you should tell her. You made your bed now you have to lay in it. Because if she finds out you lied to her its going to be soooo much worse than if you just came clean. Yeah, she may be mad for awhile, but aleast you can work on putting trust back in place. I know if my ex would have come clean about it, I would have been mad, but we could have worked on it. Instead I found out from people I didn’t even know and that hurt more than if he would have just told me, so yeah I dumped him. But give her the chance to be mad and to forgive you. And if she doesn’t well than I would hope you know better for next time.Posted by brendy 16th August 2014
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Posted by don’t tell her… 26th January 2009
and don’t do it again. why burden her with that if it was a one time thing?