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I found out I was pregnant in 2010, the day after Christmas. My now husband (then fiance) and I were surprised, but okay. I was 21, he was 22. Young, but manageable. My friends were excited, said they stick with me, no matter what. August hits, my son is finally born. Friends all visit in the hospital. I have not seen any of them, save for two, since that day. I try to text, call, chat on facebook… Seems all my friends are gone.
Try to join mother’s groups, but no mother will talk to me because I’m a ‘young mother’.
We have moved a few hours away since then. Now even the two that would rarely talk to me don’t. Lonely as fucking ever.
TL:DR; Had a baby, friends said they’d hang around. Didn’t.
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Posted by Anonymous 28th May 2012
Honey, that is not a big deal, 21 is a great starting age, those moms are just just being mean because they can. (remember high school). Just give your friends time (they are busy trying to catch up to you).Post a confession or rant now! It’s completely anonymous.
Posted by Anonymous 21st May 2012
I’ll tell you about it from the other side (childless with a best friend who had a baby). I have known my best friend for 14 years in August. We did everything together…until she got pregnant last year. We’re only 20 years old now which means that she was pregnant at 19. Then everything stopped. It was not her and I when we hung out anymore. It was her, her boyfriend and her baby. That was all she talked about. All her attention was focused on that baby. When I ask her to go out now, she can’t cuz her boyfriend doesn’t want her to go anywhere and she has to watch the baby. I’m sorry for ranting but all I’m trying to say is give your friends some time and don’t give up contacting them…it’s just gonna take some time to get used to the changes…