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Back in January my mom got a Facebook request from an old boyfriend she had from back in the late 80’s. Ever since she has literally been texting or talking on the phone with him. I have never met him and I hate him. For my entire life it has just been me and her and I want her to be happy but I hate him. He’s not even in the same city, but he takes up her life. If we`re out shopping or anything she`ll stop what shes doing just to talk to him and just completely ignore me. The worst part is is that he`s married. Before my mom told me that they were going through a mutual separation, but I went on his wife’s Facebook account back in May and she had a post that said “Happy Anniversary to my wonderful husband” after I saw that I looked through her photos and all of them showed her and her husband being happy and they were recent photos too. I don`t know if my mom knows about this or not, but it seems like he`s having an affair with my mom. It hurts me deeply because my dad was cheated on by his second wife and it ruined his life. And my mom keeps saying how he`s going to become part of our lives and all this shit. I have cried practically every night since i first started noticing her behavior back in April. Every time she mentions his name I get so angry because she has to bring him up and I hate him and I hate her which hurts me because she`s my mom. At the rate its going at I`m going to have to keep her out of my life because I can`t stand him and I don`t even know him. The past seven months have been hell for me ever since he contacted my mom. I mean for gods sake they broke up over twenty years ago and they are completely different people. I’ve tried making it clear to my mom that i don’t like him but she can’t seem to take a hint. She’s even said he may come over during the summer. I refuse to be near this man and if he does come over I`m going to have leave and go to a friends house or something because I will not stay in the same house as him. Thank you for taking the time to read my rant.
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Posted by Anonymous 28th August 2015
You’re in a shitty situation. I went through this, too. Ultimately, it’s your mom’s life and she’ll do whatever makes her happy. The recent photos may be his wife’s attempt to prove to herself or to others that her marriage isn’t failing. Or he may be a shitbag. :/ There isn’t a way to know.I hated my dad but when my parents were getting divorced, I fought against it, too. My mom was cheating on my dad with another man and it was hard to watch. You always find yourself siding with someone and in a betrayal like that, you’ll almost certainly side with the parent that is being cheated on. My mom married the man she cheated with and they’ve been married for over 16 years now and she’s the happiest she’s ever been. I forgave her a long time ago and my dad became a better person in the aftermath as well.