Posted 5th March 2013 2328

I have a friend who is poisonous. Whenever I talk with her in a group, she shuts me down as if I don’t count. The main group I talk to that she’s in is something that I only accidentally told her about, an online chatroom. In the chatroom she sticks out, too. She acts differently, and just tries to get attention.

But one on one online, I try to talk to her. I tell her that I’m hurt, and she calls me passive aggressive. I don’t want to bring it up in front of others, that would be drama causing. She gets mad at me, and I have to apologize. Or we just stop talking for a little bit, and she’s back to “OMG LOL LET’S BE BESTIES :DDD” I don’t forgive her, but I figure I might drop it. And then she asks why I don’t tell her anything anymore.

I don’t tell her anything because she always shuts me down. “Lucky, I wish I (had a boyfriend, had music lessons, went to a cool school, got along with people, etc).” “You don’t count.” I get angry, and then she starts complaining about her life. “I love my boyfriend but I’m scared” Every time you say this, I say the exact same thing. I know you have issues, but it’s really annoying. “Our friend is shunning me after we had a fight this summer” Yeah, you probably did the same thing to her. Insult, and pretend everything is fine. “Our other friend is giving me the cold shoulder” She doesn’t want to deal with your BS anymore. “You don’t hang out with me as much. Why are you hanging out with others so often?” Because I think you’re poisonous, we don’t get along, and I have other friends. I see you online nearly every day, and at a game group every other week. I visit your school often to get work from a teacher, and you see me then. Most of my other friends I rarely see. You are not my best friend. I am not required to hang out with you. Stop pulling my stories from me.

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