Posted 20th February 2014 718

Okay so here’s a bit of a long posting so please bare with me (And my spelling lol).

Back in the beginning of January of 2014, this girl who I’ve known for maybe a year or two after she breaks up with her boyfriend, tells me she has liked me for the longest time. I liked her too but never said anything because of her relationship with her boyfriend she was in.

So we are talking being flirty staying up late with each other for a few weeks here and there and then she tells me she likes another guy too. So here I am trying to just hang on and hope that everything will be alright and work out for the best with us but no..

About a week and a half ago she went to visit this guy, she stayed for a week and left the day after valentines day. Meanwhile before I knew she liked him I had sent her a valentines gift in the mail (She sent me one as well) and I sent her a personal gift in the mail as well. Basically I feel played by this girl..I feel she was secretly playing the both of us until she could easily break it to me that she and him are ‘a thing’.

She tells me her intentions were not to lead me on..But it’s exactly what she did, she led me on kept talking to me acting semi sweet and innocent, even on her ‘vacation’ visiting him she tells me that he doesn’t like her as more than a friend (yeah I guess that was a lie) and that they didn’t do anything more than hold hands (I don’t believe that, but it doesn’t matter anymore).

So fast forward to last Saturday is when she got home I didn’t know she and him were actually ‘dating’ until that night. I have been trying to call her to talk to her see what’s up and she broke it to me.

Now we both play an online game right, and what I don’t understand is she still wants to talk to me and be kind of close to me I guess like a best friend close. She wants to help me gather items, hang out with me & kill stuff on the game and so on. I’m not sure if I want that from her anymore..It hurts me still to kind of talk to her (We communicate once every few days via voice chat on a voice server) and I would feel played..Strung along by her wanting to hang out and do stuff, maybe it’s just me I don’t know how to feel.

Anyone have advice..?

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