Posted 22nd July 2011 78

Ok I’ve been wanting to post to a site like this for a while. I’m a guy and I jus turned 18 last month. I’m kinda nerdy and have no sex life apart from my hand and my imagination. I don’t look bad, I’m actually fairly handsome, not the best but definitely not ugly. And I’m a nice person I try not to be mean and I’m fairly good at flirting/dating. My problem though is after those first few months of dating. That awkward time where you or your partner want to go farther but are not sure how to initiate this. Well that’s typically the time it gets cut off for me. Not because she won’t do it or that I won’t do it. But… Of my performance and size. I am at the basic 5.5- 6 in. range and I last about 10-15 minutes. Now in my mind that’s not too bad seeing as I’d rather work hard to get my partner off before I get pleasure of my own… But however it goes, I think mainstream media and ideas of this culture make it out that for a man to be any good in bed his cock has to be at least 8 in. and able to last for an hour. Now I’m sure several other guys like me are not that long or have that much endurance. I hate it when I lose a girl I’m really starting to fall for because I can’t please her in bed. I don’t know if it’s just the fact that I’m unlucky in choosing my girlfriends or that it’s all women in general, but if you ladies are reading this, or even you guys out there, a big penis is not everything. In fact it should be more about the bond you’re building of acceptance and trust more than the simple thought “Damn, he’s terrible in bed I’d never date him,” Trust me, I’ve gotten that reputation from my exes and now I’m kinda out of luck and haven’t had a girlfriend in a year at least. Please ladies, and gentlemen, don’t make it all about the physical is my point. Sex if supposed to be a bond.

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