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Okay, So lately my Mum has been really unfair and ridiculous.
I’ve known my best friend for 12 years and she is turning 15 this weekend. I haven’t been able to make a lot of her birthday parties and I feel guilty as she has always come to mine.
My Mum said that if I wanted to go I had to complete 3 weeks of Science and Math homework in 5 days and if not, I would not be allowed to attend her party. I feel like she is just making up excuses so I can’t go anywhere. Anyway, I completed one week of it and It’s likely I will finish it. Then an hour ago, My Mum was lecturing me about something, She had said the same line at least 3 times, I interrupted and said she had already told me. She absolutely lost it and said How Dare I interrupt her or whatever, I apologized but now I am not allowed to go to my best friends Birthday.
It’s just a sleepover with 3 other girls, I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, I’m not sexually active, I don’t cuss, I don’t have a boyfriend and I haven’t been to any parties this year.
I always complete my schoolwork on time and all i do really is school, sleep and eat.
Also, I don’t have a phone and I’m turning 15 in 2 weeks. My relatives usually send me a few hundred dollars for my birthday, I asked my Mum if It was Okay to get a phone, As It would be a present and I would be paying for it. She refused and said I spend too much time on technology.
Which I don’t. Social Networking/Youtube is blocked on my computer and I have time restrictions from the hours of 7-5pm. I barely get to use the computer and It’s only for study.
I haven’t been to a friends house in 3 months and I only went because my Mum had to go out.
I’m not allowed to wear any makeup, Which is fine by me as I don’t like it anyway. But I feel like I can’t move without her breathing down my neck. “Is your Homework done?” “What did your teacher say about your last essay?” “Have you completed your chores?” “What did you eat today?”
If I say I want to go to a friends as I need space, She says that she will go out instead.
I don’t ask for a lot, I’m even going to let the phone thing go. As she is the parent and I should respect her wishes, But I miss my best friend alot and we rarely see each other.
Anyone who has met my Mum thinks that she is arrogant, Self Centred, Controlling and Moody.
I can’t reason with her. She always brushes me off whenever I want to talk.
I feel so frustrated.
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Posted by Miss Fire 6th October 2012
Wow, sounds like your mom is both really paranoid and controlling. Talking to a counselor at school might be helpful. It’ll give you an unbiased person vent to, and they might be able to help you come up with ways to make your mom actually listen to you. And don’t worry, a school counselor won’t tell anyone what you’ve said unless they believe you might harm yourself or someone else.If nothing else, keep your chin up! Since you’re turning 15 soon, that means you only have three more years until you’re an adult and she can’t tell you what to do anymore. I know that seems like a long time, but when you look back in 20 years, it won’t seem like so much… and you’ll have your entire life ahead of you.